Do You Understand How X Feels?
Q meets X when X is sad. Q listens to X's story and tries to give some advice.
Do you understand how X feels?
Do you agree with Q's advice?
What would you say to X?
Learning to Ask QuestionsX was sad.X could not play shiritori with the other letters.Shiritori is a word game. You use the last letter of one word to begin a new word.Like this: EnglisH- HappY- Yes!
It’s a fun game, but X is almost never used in English words, andthe other letters didn’t want to play with X. X felt ignored and left out.
X walked off to be alone and sat down in Cafe Q. X’s head was full of questions like “Why doesn’t anybody like me?” and “Why am I so useless?”
The owner of the cafe gave X a warm drink and some good advice:
If you ask the question Can I play shiritori? The answer is no. So ask yourself a different question: Can I play tic-tac-toe? Am I good at math? Can I fall in love? The answers will surprise you.
In the story I say that X was sad. The first sentence of the story is, "X was sad."
Really X was feeling a lot of things. Probably not happy, but maybe disliked and angry. I chose sad as the main feeling. What do you think?
Nobody wanted to play with X. The explanation is a little complicated, but the feeling is simple and powerful: X felt unwanted. Useless and alone.
X's questions are about other people's opinions and expectations. X's questions are questions we all have and ask ourselves. X's questions are also about things we cannot control. We can never really answer the questions. We can learn how to respond to them in ways that are helpful.
X learns about different questions to ask that help X discover the beauty of being X. X marks the spot were the treause is buried, and the treasure is you.
There are no easy answers. Even good answers can be difficult to put into action.
I hope you do have important ideas to share and that you will share them with us.
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Thank you for listening and sharing.
There are no right or wrong answers. There are answers that I chose to be correct. If you chose those answers too, good. If you understand why I chose those answers, even better. If you have other answers and can explain why they are important to you, that's the best.