For each pair of the following statements, circle the one that best fits you within your relationships.

One of your deepest needs is the need to feel appreciated. Verbal compliments, words of appreciation and encouragement are all ways to show love to you.

{result #1 percent} Words of Affirmation

{result #2 percent} Quality Time

{result #3 percent} Receiving Gifts

{result #4 percent} Acts of Service

{result #5 percent} Physical Touch

You enjoy doing things TOGETHER. This doesn’t mean just sitting in front of the TV together, but really giving each other undivided attention. This means looking at each other, talking to each other and sharing your life.

{result #1 percent} Words of Affirmation

{result #2 percent} Quality Time

{result #3 percent} Receiving Gifts

{result #4 percent} Acts of Service

{result #5 percent} Physical Touch

You are happy to receive things from your loved ones. They don’t have to be expensive. The gift is a symbol of “they care about me” and “they think of me.”

{result #1 percent} Words of Affirmation

{result #2 percent} Quality Time

{result #3 percent} Receiving Gifts

{result #4 percent} Acts of Service

{result #5 percent} Physical Touch

For you, actions speak louder than words. You prefer people to do things for you (i.e. cook a meal, give a massage, run an errand). You like others to initiate acts of service and put effort into doing them to show that they care.

{result #1 percent} Words of Affirmation

{result #2 percent} Quality Time

{result #3 percent} Receiving Gifts

{result #4 percent} Acts of Service

{result #5 percent} Physical Touch

You love to hold hands or receive a hug, kiss or pat on the back. For you, physical touch can be ten times as powerful and comforting as any words.

{result #1 percent} Words of Affirmation

{result #2 percent} Quality Time

{result #3 percent} Receiving Gifts

{result #4 percent} Acts of Service

{result #5 percent} Physical Touch