B.S. Assessment

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B.S. Assessment

Hi!

We all experience our own B.S. that gets in our way of getting what we want or who we are. That isn't unique - but you are and so is your journey to shoveling it out of the way!

This quiz can help you name your B.S. and connect you with support if you want it!

Getting what you want and feeling good about it starts now.

How are you feeling?

Choose as many are true for you

Content

Celebratory

Curious

Depressed AF

Meh. Neutral, I guess?

Silly or Playful

Lost

Frustrated

Bitter

Disappointed

Excited

UUUUGHHHHH

Impatient

Unfulfilled

Fulfilled

Hurt

Pretty OK actually

In my Personal & Social Relationships I feel . . .

chooose however many are true for you

Alone

Content, Happy

Like I can't find MY PEOPLE

Like people don't get me

Supported

Loved Unconditionally

Like I'm not making the progress I want

Like I can't show my true self to people

Like I've been let down by a lot of people

Like I'll never find a partner

Secure, steady

Uplifted

Like I forget to reach out to people

Like I can't be as generous as I want to be

Like I don't get enough from others

Like people think I'm too weird

Like I can't be my full self with others

I'm losing control

Conflict and it freaks me out

Excluded from what I want in life

Like I don't know what I want

LIke I can't commit

Tired. So tired.

Like I can't communicate who I am

In my Business or Work Relationships I feel . . .

chooose however many are true for you

Alone

Content, Happy

Like people don't get me

Supported in my goals

Like I'm not making the progress I want

Like I want to bring more of my whole self to work, but it feels dangerous

Secure, steady

Like I make enough money to live the life I want

Like I can't get enough money

Like my coworkers are bigoted

Like I don't know how to support people different from myself

LIke I make mistakes A LOT and don't know what to do about it

Like my brain just can't keep up

Overwhelmed

LIke I've hurt people and I don't know how to fix it

Tired. So, so, so tired.

Like I can't commit to my work

Like I don't know what to do for money

Excluded from the places I'll shine

Like I have no control over my worklife

I can't communicate well

How do you see yourself?

choose all that are true for you

I look past myself in mirrors

With my eyes, obviously.

a Failure

Stuck

Lucky

Lost

Attractive

Creative

Ugly or uninteresting looking

Unlucky

Perfect in my imperfections

Undeserving

Like I have a lot to offer the world and myself

Steady no matter what

Secure in who I am

Secure in what I want

I'm a problem that needs fixing

Communicative AF

Connection

Before you get your results, let me know if you'd like to connect.

Let's discover how we align.

Let's find our win-win.

My email is candis@defianceexchange.org - Keep an eye out for me!

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Schedule a 30-minute Fit-finder meeting.

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Money B.S.

Your relationship to money and internalized stories about it might be getting in the way of you experiencing what you want to with money.

Are there nefarious financial practices and systems at play? Yes! Are there things you can liberate yourself from within your own mind to better position you to overcome or change those nefarious systems? ALSO YES!

Money B.S. often indicates an opportunity to examine and play with our relationships to:

Power
Intimacy
Self-worth
Communal Impact

Our relationship to money often reflects our capacity to give and receive. Feeling stuck? Open the financial flow and connect with a Money Mindset Coach

{result #1 percent} Money B.S.

{result #2 percent} Relational B.S.

{result #3 percent} Cognitive B.S.

{result #4 percent} Values B.S.

{result #5 percent} B.S. FREE!

Relational B.S.

Uh-oh. Tired of feeling like your relationships are hollow or unfulfilling? Bitter about feeling alone in times of need? Frustrated with your social energy levels? Is everyone else getting in your way?

Are you....

Managing yourself or others?
Judging and punishing yourself or others?
Making yourself small or overinflated to be more palatable to someone you don't actually respect?

Ouch. You're not alone. And I promise you belong just as you are right now. Your gifts are necessary for all of us to live our best lives together.

Shed that relational fuckery. Practice clarity, courage, and celebration with a Relational Coach.

Group and private sessions available.

{result #1 percent} Money B.S.

{result #2 percent} Relational B.S.

{result #3 percent} Cognitive B.S.

{result #4 percent} Values B.S.

{result #5 percent} B.S. FREE!

Cognitive B.S.

Ok ok, there's no such thing as Cognitive B.S.

There's nothing wrong with your brain. And.... we know that many systems and cultural practices don't support neurodivergence.

The good news is we do!

If you're looking someone with technical and experiential training in cognitive support, you've come to the right place.

We support punishment-free changes in

Executive Function
Memory & Processing speed
Focus & Attention
Vestibular Health
Primal Reflex Integration
Connecting Mind and Body for Nervous System Regulation
Healthcare navigational Strategies for Neurodivergence Support

Or maybe you just don't want to feel alone with your unique mind. We're here with you.

Schedule with a Cognitive Coach to get started.

{result #1 percent} Money B.S.

{result #2 percent} Relational B.S.

{result #3 percent} Cognitive B.S.

{result #4 percent} Values B.S.

{result #5 percent} B.S. FREE!

Values B.S.

Our Values are our guiding stars. They shape how we interact with the world. When We feel like we can't align our values and our actions, we often feel like we don't belong, aren't worth the effort or that life itself is pointless.

And while life itself may actually be pointless, your direction in life doesn't have to be. (I dunno, ask a philosopher or your wisest inner self)

Value alignment offerings are available for groups, businesses, or private coaching.

Discover and Align your direction today.

{result #1 percent} Money B.S.

{result #2 percent} Relational B.S.

{result #3 percent} Cognitive B.S.

{result #4 percent} Values B.S.

{result #5 percent} B.S. FREE!

B.S. FREE!

Ok, while nobody is perfectly B.S. Free, you seem to have a pretty sovereign, aligned, juicy, and delicious existence. We'd love to hear your journey of how you got where you are.

Are you interested in joining a collective of like individuals? We're co-creating our space and enjoying each others' company.

You in?

{result #1 percent} Money B.S.

{result #2 percent} Relational B.S.

{result #3 percent} Cognitive B.S.

{result #4 percent} Values B.S.

{result #5 percent} B.S. FREE!