Find Out Your Communication Style
Someone says something that offends you. What do you do?
Your partner forgot an important date (like an anniversary). How do you respond?
Your partner makes plans without consulting you. How do you handle it?
You feel overwhelmed and need space. What do you do?
You want more quality time together, but your partner is always busy. What do you say?
You want to bring up a sensitive topic. What’s your approach?
Your partner is spending more time with friends than with you. How do you respond?
How do you typically express disagreement in a conversation?
You’re feeling insecure but don’t want to come off as needy. What do you do?
Your partner does something sweet for you, but it’s not what you wanted. How do you react?
Assertive Apple Pie
You’re someone who knows how to express yourself clearly and respectfully. You stand up for your needs while also listening to others and keeping things fair. People likely appreciate your honesty and the way you handle conversations with confidence and empathy. This balance of clarity and respect is a real strength in building positive, healthy communication.
Aggressive Acai
You tend to be very direct and outspoken, which can be a strength—but sometimes it comes across as a bit too forceful. You might find yourself raising your voice, interrupting others, or pushing your point to get things done your way. While your confidence is clear, others may feel like their opinions aren't being heard. Finding a balance between speaking up and listening can really help strengthen your relationships.
Passive Pudding
You’re someone who often puts others' needs before your own, which shows you care about keeping the peace. But sometimes, you might hold back your own thoughts or go along with things just to avoid conflict. This can lead to feeling frustrated or overlooked. It's important to remember that your voice matters, and speaking up calmly and clearly can help you feel more confident and respected.
Passive-Aggressive Pancake
You may not always feel comfortable addressing things directly, so instead you might express your frustration in subtle or indirect ways—like giving the silent treatment, using sarcasm, or doing things begrudgingly. While it's totally normal to avoid confrontation sometimes, this style can leave issues unresolved and confuse others. Opening up more honestly, even if it's uncomfortable at first, can really help improve communication and trust.
