Am I In Love Quiz

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When this person isn’t around, you …

Don't really think about them, TBH.

Think about them now and then (depends on the day).

Can't stop thinking about them!

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How would you feel if this person moved away and you lost touch with them?

Eh, I wouldn't mind too much.

I'd be crushed. I can't picture not having them in my life.

I guess I'd be sad, but would eventually move on.

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How do you feel when you’re with them?

I have a good time with them, just like I do with my other friends.

I feel like my best self—really happy and content.

I get annoyed if we're together for too long.

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You and your love interest have a disagreement. How do you handle it?

No need to hear their side; I'm always right, anyway.

I may say some harsh things if I'm heated, but eventually try to get on the same page.

I try to see where they're coming from and argue respectfully because I don't want to say something I'll regret.

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How important is this person’s happiness to you?

I care about their happiness, but not more or less than others who I also care about.

Their happiness is on them; I'll worry about mine.

Their happiness is everything, and I love to see them thrive.

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When you think about your future, does this person come to mind?

I don't really see them being in my life for the long haul.

For sure, they're an important part of my life, and my future plans include them.

Maybe, with more of a supporting than a leading role.

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What type of influence does this person have on your life?

I feel like I can be myself around them and also have the space to learn and grow.

They're nice to be around and sometimes challenge me to do new things.

Not much of one, really.

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When something happens (good or bad), how eager are you to share it with this person?

I'll share it with them, but they're usually not at the top of my list.

I might share something with them if I remember to.

They're definitely the first one I call or run to with whatever type of news.

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This person shares a past mistake or regret with you. How would you most likely respond?

I wonder why they're sharing this with me—it feels too deep and I like to keep things lighter with them.

I listen and support them because their flaws or mistakes don't change how I feel about them.

I listen but might change my opinion of them depending on what they share.

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This person gets an exciting new job opportunity, but it's in another state, and they ask you to come. What do you do?

Tell them to go without me. I'll come visit when I can.

Say no right away. It feels totally unfair to ask, and a move together doesn't feel like a good idea.

Accept their invite in a heartbeat. I support them and I know they'd do the same for me.

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How would you describe your sex life with this person?

The sex can be satisfying, but we don't have much of a connection outside of that.

We have a deep connection, which kicks things up a notch in the bedroom.

We have good chemistry, but things could be a little better.

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In the time you've known or been with this person, how have your feelings changed?

I still enjoy their company, but my feelings haven't really changed.

I'm starting to get the ick after spending more and more time with them.

The more I get to know and spend time with them, the deeper I fall.

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In Love, Much?

We'll be the first to say it: You're completely smitten! You’re showing clear signs of healthy attachment, care, intimacy, trust, and commitment—the perfect recipe for love.

All of us experience love differently. While this test can help you determine your feelings for your person, it can't tell you what to do in a relationship. It's completely normal to have deeper concerns about love and commitment or whether or not your relationship feels healthy.

We know it might take some time to sort out feelings for someone new in your life or reassess them as a relationship evolves. Your results are meant to help get a better understanding of how you feel about your love interest, which might help you make the right decision about your relationship moving forward.

Love is complicated! So, when it comes to your feelings, trust your gut, and maintain healthy communication to make sure your needs are being met.

You May Love Them, But Are You IN Love With Them?

Yes, you are showing some affection and attachment for this person, but you’re most likely not in love right now.

All of us experience love differently. While this test can help you determine your feelings for your person, it can't tell you what to do in a relationship. It's completely normal to have deeper concerns about love and commitment or whether or not your relationship feels healthy.

We know it might take some time to sort out feelings for someone new in your life or reassess them as a relationship evolves. Your results are meant to help get a better understanding of how you feel about your love interest, which might help you make the right decision about your relationship moving forward.

Love is complicated! So, when it comes to your feelings, trust your gut, and maintain healthy communication to make sure your needs are being met.

You're Not in Love

We hate to break it to you: You're showing very little to no feelings of love for this person (but you probably already guessed as much).

All of us experience love differently. While this test can help you determine your feelings for your person, it can't tell you what to do in a relationship. It's completely normal to have deeper concerns about love and commitment or whether or not your relationship feels healthy.

We know it might take some time to sort out feelings for someone new in your life or reassess them as a relationship evolves. Your results are meant to help get a better understanding of how you feel about your love interest, which might help you make the right decision about your relationship moving forward.

Love is complicated! So, when it comes to your feelings, trust your gut, and maintain healthy communication to make sure your needs are being met.