How do rules work in your house?
I don't really make or enforce rules—I don't want my children to be unhappy or to not like me.
I don't have the time or interest in coming up with rules or enforcing them with my children.
I have a set of strict rules, and I expect them to be obeyed. If not, there are swift punishments.
I have rules but give my children room to make decisions and learn from their mistakes. I explain why behavior needs correction.