Your Relationship Attachment Style
1. Who you'll attract
2. Who will be attracted to you
3. The quality of your future relationships
4. The problems you'll likely encounter in relationships and so much more.
Here is a quick overview of the types of attachment styles there are and a link to a quiz that will help you figure out what type you are.
Secure: Low on avoidance, low on anxiety. Comfortable with intimacy; not worried about rejection or preoccupied with the relationship. “It is easy for me to get close to others, and I am comfortable depending on them and having them depend on me. I don’t worry about being abandoned or about someone getting too close to me.”
Avoidant: High on avoidance, low on anxiety. Uncomfortable with closeness and primarily values independence and freedom; not worried about partner’s availability. “I am uncomfortable being close to others. I find it difficult to trust and depend on others and prefer that others do not depend on me. It is very important that I feel independent and self-sufficient. My partner wants me to be more intimate than I am comfortable being.”
Anxious: Low on avoidance, high on anxiety. Crave closeness and intimacy, very insecure about the relationship. “I want to be extremely emotionally close (merge) with others, but others are reluctant to get as close as I would like. I often worry that my partner doesn’t love or value me and will abandon me. My inordinate need for closeness scares people away.
Here is a link to the quiz: http://www.web-research-design.net/cgi-bin/crq/crq.pl
Take the bottom, or second quiz